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Loss

The Clay Cup

“Some special things can break.”

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A favourite cup, and the tender truth that special things can break. A quiet way to love what we have while knowing nothing lasts forever.

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“When you care for something useful, delightful, or dearly loved, remind yourself what kind of thing it is, beginning with the smallest. If you love a clay cup, remember that it is a clay cup you love; for then, if it is broken, you can bear it.”
Epictetus · Enchiridion 3

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For grown-ups

The Stoic point is not to love less, but to love clearly: to know that what we love is fragile, and to love it anyway. Do not turn this into “it was only a cup.” The cup mattered. The practice is to name the nature of the thing and grieve without pretending the love was foolish.

A little practice: When something loved changes, say: it was special, and special things can change.

The line your child keeps in Pocket: “Some special things can break.”

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